98% cố gắng của bản thân quyết định thành công nhưng đã bao giờ bạn tự hỏi mình thực sự nỗ lực vì điều gì chưa hay chỉ vì muốn “bắt chước” người khác?


“Mỗi sáng thức dậy, con linh dương biết rằng: Nó sẽ bị giết nếu không chạy nhanh hơn con sư tử nhanh nhất! Mỗi sáng thức dậy, con sư tử biết rằng: Nó sẽ chết đói nếu không chạy nhanh hơn con linh dương chậm nhất.”

Cảm ơn câu nói này, nó giúp tôi nhìn ra một khía cạnh khác: Linh dương nếu không bị sư tử rượt thì sẽ không chạy mà cứ thế tung tăng trên đồng cỏ. Sư tử săn được con mồi rồi cũng sẽ thôi không chạy nữa, và khi không đói thì nó cũng sẽ không chạy bạt mạng nữa.

Con người chúng ta thì sao, ai cũng chạy, nhưng mấy ai biết: Rốt cuộc, mình chạy vì điều gì?

Mỗi người chúng ta lao vào cuộc đời và bị cuốn theo cuộc tranh giành cơm áo gạo tiền, khi đã đạt được thì con người hướng đến danh lợi, quyền lực… Ta cứ chạy, chạy mãi trên một con đường không có điểm cuối. Ta nhận lấy những stress, mong muốn xả stress để rồi lại nhận thêm càng nhiều stress.

Cứ mãi như thế, chúng ta bắt đầu cảm thấy sợ hãi khi phải ở một mình, thậm chí là sợ cả những lúc “nhàn rỗi”. Ta cứ phải làm một việc gì đó, giống như mở Tivi chỉ để cho có tiếng động, lướt Facebook nhưng chẳng chủ đích xem cái gì.

Rồi ta tìm tới rượu bia, tiệc tùng, sàn nhảy để giải thoát bản thân, để tìm lấy niềm vui dù là giả tạo trong chốc lát; dù biết sau cơn say bản thân vẫn bị đẩy về với hiện thực càng đau đớn hơn gấp trăm lần.

98% cố gắng của bản thân quyết định thành công nhưng đã bao giờ bạn tự hỏi mình thực sự nỗ lực vì điều gì chưa hay chỉ vì muốn bắt chước người khác? - Ảnh 1.

Đến một thời điểm nào đó, chúng ta sẽ len lén tự hỏi: “Ta là ai trong cuộc đời này?”

Câu hỏi này nghe có vẻ là điên rồ, thế nhưng đằng sau nó là cả một sự cay đắng và bi phẫn. Con người ta đã bị đánh mất đi cái tôi của mình, điều này có nghĩa là con người chỉ có thể đảm bảo cho sự tồn tại của bản thân bằng cách sống theo sự mong đợi của người khác, sống theo số đông dù đúng dù sai ta cũng không muốn biết nữa.


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